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My friend wrote a book, while battling brain cancer!

šŸ“š I met my friend @JamesMayes.bsky.social about a dozen years ago at a local chapter of TEDx in Brighton, where I used to reside during my university studies and the early stages of my career.

We quickly connected due to our shared heavy social media usage and mutual attraction towards good food & drinks, good people, and a passion for technology. Since then, we’ve been friends, and I’m grateful to have him as both a friend and a mentor in my professional life.

Over the past year, James has been battling brain cancer. On top of this life-altering diagnosis, he’s been incredibly busy. Since last year, he’s been involved in the following endeavors:

Needless to say, for community-oriented individuals like myself, this book is already a must-read. I was fortunate enough to read early chapters a while back and eagerly anticipate delving deeper into the book.

Book Cover: Meetup to Millions, how to grow a meetup into a global community

About Apple News+ šŸ“°

For national, world, and general interest news, Apple News is really good. (…) it’s truly excellent. And a News+ subscription gets you access to a bunch of great publications with paywalls on the web.

My wife and I are on the bundled package which includes Fitness+, News+, TV+, and a bunch of iCloud storage and we haven’t looked back.

I don’t use Apple News+ as much as I’d like purely because I also have RSS/social + occasionally open the NYTimes app or The Athletic.

I’d love it if France-based publishers would play ball too — and if there was additional support for foreign-language publishers.

But overall it’s a great way to catch up on the news. Including Audio articles, Magazines, and Sports News — that’s a really good curated tab of different news specifically tailored to teams that I follow!

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Micro.Blog to Bluesky/Mastodon/Fediverse (and Threads too!)

Another post inspired by @Manton, as I continue to read my way through my subscribed feeds:

I’m Tibz on most socials, @tibz.blog on Bluesky, and @tibz@micro.blog on Mastodon / @iTibz on Threads. These are all managed by Micro.blog. ā€œAre you getting it? These are not three separate accounts… This is one place to post. And we’re calling it a blog.ā€ 🤪

I’ve been loving the idea of Micro.Blog since its inception, but over the past few years, it’s really become a super interesting, powerful, and simple way for me to manage my personal online presence!

The Foursquare City Guide App is closing on Dec 15th

Getting ready to say goodbye to Foursquare, an app I’ve used almost daily since its earlier form back in 2009 between my time studying and working and living in the UK, then in San Francisco, Paris, and my native French Riviera. Back then I used to check-in to places I visited from the mobile browser of my Nokia blackberry knockoff (E63) (2009-2011), then an Android phone (2011-2013), and finally from the dedicated iPhone apps (2013+). During that time the Foursquare app (and later Swarm) has almost always been on my phone’s Home Screen.

I’m feeling genuinely sad about this, truly the end of an era for a formative time in my life, the late 2000’s-early 2010s ā€œSoLoMoā€ (Social Local Mobile) apps.

4SQ has been invaluable, not just for memorizing/logging/remembering places I’ve been to, but also to discover new places.

I traveled the world by myself for most of 2017, but Foursquare was my guide to discover new favorites while visiting cities all around Asia or America for the very first time. The amount of time I’ve spent on this app is immeasurable and I have a hard time wondering how I’ll get by the next time I explore a new city in the world.

As I start looking at substitutes, it seems that Superlocal could be an option. Otherwise North.Industries which I need to look into. But I need to do a lot more research!

Paris Basketball doubleheader

Getting this basketball doubleheader started with @ParisBasketball Women’s first home game (for their inaugural season).

Our new women’s team is in the fourth tier but we’re hoping they’ll climb the ranks over the next few years.

Love the example it sets for our daughters to have role models to look up to just a few minutes away from home!

Things I like: Fixtured (a Sports calendar app)

The Problem

As a sports fan following different teams/leagues/sports, keeping track of “what game is on today?” or “I have some free time on Sunday, is there anything good on?” has been a STRUGGLE these past few years.

Usually, there are existing apps you can use, mostly for āš½ļø. Or Sports Media apps (like L’Equipe here in France, or The Athletic, or ESPN) etc.

But these aren’t great for the purpose of knowing - What is on? - and When?

“When is there an exciting game around which I can plan to meet my friends, at home or in a bar?"

“How can I schedule my weekend in a way that I get to watch my team(s) while being mindful of family time and running errands?"

These are problems I’m continually experiencing.

To counter this, I’ve been using different websites that publish an RSS feed that you can subscribe to in a calendar app.

But as a self-described sports junkie, I ended up polluting my calendar with games, which made viewing my actual events pretty difficult.

The Solution

Fast-forward to October last year, when I discovered a service called Fixtured.

I can’t quite remember how it got put on to my radar, but Fixtured has totally changed this for me, and now I have one single place where I can see at a glance what’s coming up.

Today, it’s essentially a web-based calendar app, where you can choose which teams & leagues you follow across many different sports. It’s super easy to use in a “set it up once” type of way. I really like the design, and for someone like me, it is the PERFECT tool and usecase.

On top of that, the team behind Fixtured has been super responsive, keen to hear my feedback, and fast to implement new features/leagues/teams. They’re quite small (3 people) and works fast. In the past, they reached out by email and later via DMs to let me know about upcoming things. It’s been really cool to discover more about their work!

And I started sharing it with my friends in similar situations — my good friend Jeffry sent me this message today: “Fixtured has already changed my life. Thank you forever

I’m just a fan of what they’re building and want them to succeed. So for any sports fan like me, check out Fixtured! šŸ‘‹šŸŽ¤

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My 2024 Fantasy Football Draft Results

šŸˆ I’ve been running a league with a few friends for the past 5 years or so, and even won in my 3rd year!

Here’s my team as we get ready for the season next weekend!

Screenshot of my fantasy football team on Sleeper

ā€œThe Creatorā€ - movie review

ā€œThe Creatorā€ - 3.5/5

Glad enough enough time has passed that I could form my own opinion of this movie. Quite liked it and visually/conceptually it was really interesting!

# John Mayer (Solo, Live in Paris)

šŸŽ¶ About last night:

My all-time favorite artist (John Mayer) playing his very first concert in Paris. It was my second time seeing John after attending the Paradise Valley tour back in 2013

It was really cool to see him take the stage by himself for 2 hours! John played mostly acoustic, but it was an opportunity to hear songs from every single album he put out (with the additions of In Your Atmosphere and his iconic Free Fallin' cover!

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NYTimes: The Call and Matthew Perry’s death

The Call

If you’re fortunate to live long enough, eventually you get The Call. Sometimes it’s an actual call, sometimes a social media post or a conversation on the street. But the message is the same: A friend of your youth has died.

The death of Matthew Perry was sad for all the reasons it is sad when a gifted, nimble, charming performer who has shared his struggles dies too young. But it was deepened by the particular relationship of ā€œFriendsā€ to its audience. If you connected with the show the way the show wanted to connect with you, the weekend’s news was a global version of The Call.

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Freelance and looking for work

šŸ‘‹šŸ¼ It’s been a few months since I’ve gotten back to freelancing and I wanted to share that I have some availability between now and the end of the year.

šŸ’¼ I’m looking for additional work in Customer Success / Product Marketing starting at the end of August.

šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļøI’m flexible but typically specialize in early stage startups and small companies looking for a Jack-of-all-trade profile, across a wide range of industries.

You can learn more about my work via my portfolio website (http://Tibz.work/) and my DMs are opened for more discussions.

As always, any repost/reshare is appreciated!

AO Scott on ending his career as a Film Critic

I’m not a fan of modern fandom. This isn’t only because I’ve been swarmed on Twitter by angry devotees of Marvel and DC and (more recently) ā€œTop Gun: Maverickā€ and ā€œEverything Everywhere All at Once.ā€ It’s more that the behavior of these social media hordes represents an anti-democratic, anti-intellectual mind-set that is harmful to the cause of art and antithetical to the spirit of movies. Fan culture is rooted in conformity, obedience, group identity and mob behavior, and its rise mirrors and models the spread of intolerant, authoritarian, aggressive tendencies in our politics and our communal life.

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Day 11 of theĀ March Photoblogging Challenge

Day 11 of theĀ March Photoblogging Challenge:Ā “gimrack”.

I had to look up what it means, and it turns out it’s similar to knickknack.

My favorite one is this framed letter that Shana wrote after our first date, when I got home and she was traveling for work. Our first date was in London on Feb. 14th 2017, and our second date was a month later in Amsterdam for an extended weekend together.

Next to it stands a Polaroid photo of us on Times Square taken by local friends of ours, in November 2017 as we wrapped our world tour together.

Let’s continue helping Tweetbot and Twitterrific

Let’s continue helping Tweetbot and Twitterrific, the small indie developers who have given so much to our early-Twitter community of the 2010s-2020s:

If you’re a subscriber to either Tweetbot or Twitterrific, you can help them out with three simple steps:

  • Reinstall the app if you’ve already deleted it; otherwise, make sure you’re running the latest version.

  • Tap the ā€œI Don’t Need a Refundā€ button.

  • Feel good and go buy yourself a treat, knowing you helped the good folks at a small company whose work you’ve appreciated (and will continue to).

Work Update:

šŸ“£ šŸ’¼ I’ve been thinking of how best to apply my skills and help companies grow. I can add a lot of value to a team focused on business & product but that hasn’t had the chance to think about how to support customers and how to onboard new users.

My sweet spot is early-stage startups and companies that need to set up and launch their customer experience: setting up their support strategy, help desk, help center, segmenting the customer base and understanding how to educate users in the best practices, how to use features, how to make sure they make the most out of a given product, all the way to community building. Basically anything customer-facing.

All of this to say I’m thinking about going back to freelancing but I need clients…

I’ve been working full remote since 2015, have experience working with international, cross-disciplinary teams in the US, Europe, UK, whether B2B SaaS, B2C, sports, crypto, fintech, Dev tools, consumer, I’ve done a lot…

The Guardian, on AS Monaco’s youth talent factory!

Really enjoyed this piece on my childhood club: AS Monaco šŸ‡²šŸ‡Ø

The Monaco academy boasts a star-studded list of alumni: World Cup winners Thierry Henry, Emmanuel Petit, Lilian Thuram, David Trezeguet and Kylian MbappƩ all graduated from the club. When Monaco tinkered with their successful formula of youth development, signing Radamel Falcao and James Rodrƭguez for big money, they won Ligue 1 and reached the Champions League semi-finals

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Tech Layoffs, myself included:

Shoutout to employers making missteps

Layoffs are among the most challenging life experiences, causing more psychological stress than even divorce, according to one study. Losing a job can upend workers’ finances and their sense of self, and layoffs in the world of remote work have in many cases been especially destabilizing, with employer missteps fueling uncertainty and unnecessary unknowns.

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Felt this part a lot too:

Last year ended with job cuts across tech behemoths […] For many of these companies, these cuts followed years of free-flowing perks and flexible work arrangements that were part of what was called a ā€œwar for talent.ā€ ā€œThat is one of the great contradictions of corporate life,ā€ Ms. Sucher said. ā€œAll corporations say ā€˜People are our most important asset,’ but they don’t really seem to believe that.ā€ ā€œCalling someone ā€˜talent’ is quite different from calling them a person,ā€ she added. ā€œPeople aren’t a resource that can be depleted over time.ā€


Contrast being told ā€œimma checkin with you and share your profile with my networkā€ and never hearing back with how Nokia did it, at scale:

Actions > Words.

Nokia, when it was restructuring in 2011, gave the roughly 18,000 people who would be affected about a year of advance notice and offered them several pathways forward: The company would help them find new roles internally, get new jobs externally, start their own businesses or begin an educational program, among other options. Nokia’s success metrics were whether people had a job lined up when they left the firm, and whether they were leaving with a positive enough impression that they would be open to returning in the future. Nearly two-thirds of people who left knew what their next steps would be. ā€œThis is going to be the lasting impression that sticks with your previous employees, your current employees and all future employees,ā€ said Tanner Hackett, chief executive of Counterpart, an insurance technology company that helps small businesses.


One of the most frustrating part is being told ā€œwhat a great person you areā€, ā€œwhat a wonderful positive energy you bringā€, ā€œhow much we value working with youā€, and ā€œif things were different we’d hire you again right awayā€ā€¦

But you’re still showing me the door so… šŸšŖšŸ’„ šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

I do believe that good vibes/energy pay(s) off in the long term in terms of good reputation.

But short/medium term I’m yet to find a leader that values it at the point of backing someone when times get hard(er)

Watched: December 2022 / January 2023

Been making great use of @Letterboxd these past few weeks 🤩

Reading: ā€œThe Unfoldingā€ by A.M. Homes

This was too relatable considering my current personal situation and professional predicament.

ā€œRight now you’re in a very specific moment. It’s called liminal space. You’re in the ambiguous or disoriented phase, also known as the middle of a rite of passage. Part of that is just growing up, but it also has to do with what you found out. Now you’re transforming, incorporating that information into your identity. It can be scary, like free-falling.ā€

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ā€Wout Weghorst briefly went supernovaā€

ā€What’s your favorite part? Mine is the bit where Cristiano Ronaldo walks down the tunnel, crying.ā€

ā€Next, Morocco gets to play its other former colonizer, France, for a chance to complete the re-enactment of its own liberation.ā€

ā€œMbappĆ© has been romping through this World Cup with supreme Meryl Streep Doing Community Theater energy—the talent so vast, the stage so small.ā€

The bandwagon fan’s guide to the World Cup semifinals - The Ringer

Kylian MbappƩ almost played for Chelsea

ā€The letter is typed on AS Bondy headed paper, dated 17 May 2011. It gives permission for a 12-year-old French boy named Kylian Mbappe to attend a four-day trial the following week. Mbappe was on his way to Chelsea.ā€

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The Athletic: Remembering Grant Wahl

ā€œHis raw copy was as clean as a Lionel Messi first touch, and the ideas within it always crystal-clear and refined.ā€

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Lime scooters lobbying efforts.

I just received this email and I’m unsure how I feel about this…

On the one hand it’s a bit chaotic, on the other it’s very convenient, and allows more people to find alternative transportation methods compared to the Metro/Taxis/Uber.

But emailing your customer base without giving them facts is equivalent to sharing fake news and masking ‘opinion-as-fact’ in a way that is reminiscent of US Republicans and far-right politicians.

I believe more strongly in Regulate It than in Ban It.

Plus, the real problem in my mind lies with people, not in the devices themselves. There are lots of examples of things that don’t work here in France due to people being too selfish or individualists.

Waking up is hard to do…

As I pointed out three years ago, if you woke up on a Casper mattress, worked out with a Peloton, _Uber_ed to a WeWork, ordered on DoorDash for lunch, took a Lyft home, and ordered dinner through Postmates only to realize your partner had already started on a Blue Apron meal, your household had, in one day, interacted with eight unprofitable companies that collectively lost about $15 billion in one year.

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Everything Everywhere All At Once

I’ve waited for SO DAMN LONG to be able to see @AllAtOnceMovie — such an incredible film!

"Cities" by PG

I tried living there for a bit last year, and the ambitions of the inhabitants are not intellectual ones. The message Paris sends now is: do things with style. I liked that, actually. Paris is the only city I’ve lived in where people genuinely cared about art. In America only a few rich people buy original art, and even the more sophisticated ones rarely get past judging it by the brand name of the artist. But looking through windows at dusk in Paris you can see that people there actually care what paintings look like. Visually, Paris has the best eavesdropping I know.

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NYT x Krugman: "How France's Economy Is Surviving the Covid Pandemic"

I don’t want to romanticize the French economy or French society, both of which have plenty of problems. And liberals who like to imagine that we could neutralize the anger of the white working class by raising wages and strengthening the social safety net should know that France, whose policies are to the left of U.S. progressives’ wildest dreams, has its own ugly white nationalist movement, albeit not as powerful as ours.

Still, at a time when Republicans denounce as destructive ā€œsocialismā€ any effort to make America less unequal, it’s worth knowing that the economy of France — which isn’t socialist but comes far closer to socialism than anything Democrats might propose — is doing pretty well.

ā€˜Nightmare Alley’

In case you needed a reminder that Guillermo Del Toro is a master director and storyteller, this is a movie for you!

I highly recommend watching this in black and white, preferably in an art house cinema!

Somehow I expected more fantastic/surreal elements but aside from that it was a fun and remarkable movie to watch!

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Tang FrĆØres x Lunar New Year 2022

Really went all in at the asian supermarket today, ahead of #LunarNewYear next tuesday!

Special Edition Tsing Tao beersMooncakes and asian cookiesLunch time at the Vietnamese restaurantPretty decoration for Lunar New Year at the big asian supermarketGetting some new cooking wareThe sauce section is crazy in this supermarket

Prof G x Web3

I don’t necessarily agree with all the points made here, but some things are worth pointing out…

‘Every member of Forbes’s 2021 cryptobillionaires list is a man. A third of them attended Stanford or Harvard. Out of the 12 listed, only one isn’t white. The web3 narrative feels like a TEDx talk given to a survivalist group.’

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